Commonsensical for many, yet for others--even seasoned professionals--these important guidelines are often neglected.
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“Don’t envy, but admire; don’t resent, but appreciate; when out-done, applaud and follow the example, as the excellence of others benefits us all.”
Appreciation goes a long way, and regardless how jealous you might feel about another's accomplishments, overcome envy conscientiously by going out of your way to applaud the achievements of your colleagues. And regardless of your efforts, do NOT expect the same in return. If such appreciation and praise is reciprocated, accept it gracefully and humbly. But if no one appropriately recognizes your important work, be sure to self-advocate and publicize while avoiding arrogance. It is important that your own productive, noteworthy efforts are not overlooked!
Send a "thank you" on a hand-written note instead of via e-mail, text or social media. The extra gesture of a paper missive makes a more meaningful impact.